When discussing femdom, it is important to note the divide between a conversation in online versus real life space. For those unfamiliar with the term, ‘Femdom’ refers to female dominance, which can encompass both sexual and non-sexual BDSM relationships. As a topic and lifestyle, Femdom is increasingly becoming more visible and accepted in both online and real-life spaces, however, there remain certain differences in the discussion and approach to the topic between the two realms.
One of the key differences between online and real-life conversations regarding Femdom lies in the fact that online spaces allow for a greater degree of anonymity for those engaging in discussion or interested in the lifestyle. This means that those new to the topic or to exploring their interest in Femdom can do so without the fear of judgement or repercussion as they can remain relatively anonymous. Consequently, there is an abundance of resources and information available on the topic such as blogs, forums, websites and chatrooms that provide a space for people to engage in discussion, seek advice, and find information. These online resources can act as an introduction to the concept of Femdom as well as a way for users to gain insight into the lifestyle without having to take on a real-life commitment.
In addition, online spaces also provide a greater sense of community when it comes to exploring Femdom, as it is much more commonplace for those engaging to remain in contact beyond their initial conversations. Whereas real-life conversations tend to be brief and usually take place between two parties, online conversations have a more lasting impression, allowing individuals to get to know each other more, spark potential friendships, or exchange knowledge about the lifestyle.
On the other hand, real-life conversations regarding Femdom provide greater intimacy and connectivity. These conversations are more emotionally and physically engaging and allow users to gain a greater insight into the lifestyle, as emotion and body language through physical interaction can be included. In addition, Femdom relationships that take the form of Dominant and submissive i.e. engagement outside of simply BDSM activities often require an element of trust to be formed, and this can be difficult to do when not engaging in dialogue face-to-face.
To conclude, it is clear that online and real-life conversations regarding Femdom differ greatly in both the approach and resources available. Online spaces often provide an important introduction to the topic and offer resources that allow individuals to explore further, but ultimately, as Femdom relationships require a sense of trust, real-life conversations are essential for those looking to really become invested in the lifestyle. Reference.
My gentle femdom practice has evolved significantly over time. I’ve become deeply appreciative of the intimate connection between consent, choice, and pleasure that my gentle femdom practice has made possible.
I started out with light bondage, role-play, and strict dynamic acts as my core Femdom practice. This was a gradual evolution, building up from simple play to more elaborate scenes. Soon I was incorporating tools like paddles and blindfolds, wax play, CBT, and even electric wands and anal play.
As I began to explore BDSM more deeply, I realized it could be a powerful path to personal growth and self-discovery. I was eventually able to create a space that allowed for true intimacy to develop between myself and my submissive partner. We were able to explore different sides of ourselves, as well as a new level of trust and communication.
As I began to build an understanding and respect for my submissive playmates, I started to look for ways to make our experiences enjoyable and sustainable for long-term practice. I set clear boundaries and focused on providing psychological as well as physical needs.
I began to understand the benefits of gradually deepening the connection between us. I also learned and adopted different techniques to ensure safety, trust, respect, and consent with each interaction.
Finally, I began to bring more personal elements to my practice. I explored integrative bodywork and mindfulness-based approaches. I challenged both myself and my partners to explore new pathways to pleasure.
My gentle femdom practice has grown and changed over time. I’ve come to appreciate its power as an act that is borne out of freedom of choice as well as shared trust and intimacy. I’ve embraced different pathways to greater pleasure and self-discovery, and developed tools to make sure my playmates and I both feel safe and respected. I am continually awed by the power of an experience that is both exciting and rewarding.