When it comes to consensual sadomasochistic activities, my experience has been overwhelmingly positive.
I’m in a committed relationship with my wife, and we’ve both been exploring BDSM activities for some time now, including consensual sadomasochistic activities in the context of a Femdom. In our relationship, my wife has taken on the role of ‘dominatrix’, while I’ve become her ‘submissive’.
For us, entering the world of BDSM has changed our relationship in so many positive ways. We both strive to create an atmosphere of respect and equality in our relationship. This is so important to us both, and it’s a major part of our Femdom experience.
Of course, we still have our disagreements and moments of tension, but by incorporating consensual sadomasochistic activities into our relationship, we’re able to take action and find a resolution faster than before. We’ve also found that these activities offer more freedom and experimentation than other forms of sex, and it challenges us to become better and more open partners.
In our sessions, which vary widely in length and level, I play the part of the submissive while my wife commands me. We have both come to understand and accept our roles, and it has allowed us to explore new sexual activities that neither of us thought possible before.
When we enter into a session, my wife usually gives me a set of instructions to follow. I’m expected to obey them or suffer some type of punishment depending on the level of our play. My wife never goes overboard with her punishments but even small punishments like having to do extra chores or impose a certain type of clothing can provide us both with a feeling of satisfaction and release.
So far, my experience with consensual sadomasochistic activities has been incredibly rewarding and fulfilling because it has served to deepen our trust and intimacy. We both leave each session feeling closer than ever before, and we have found that this type of play also provides us with a great way to let go of our daily worries and anxieties.
Our Femdom relationship has become one of the most beautiful aspects of our partnership, and I’m thankful every day that I get to share this special bond with my wife. View it.
Are you curious about the different techniques for bdsm spanking? BDSM spanking can range from light and playful “happy slapping to intense, hard-hitting punishment play. It’s important to understand the basics of BDSM before starting spanking, and to always practice the spanking activities safely and responsibly.
Most BDSM spanking play is done on the buttock, with the spanker’s hand, paddle, or crop. Anticipation is often built up before a spanking, with the submissive getting aroused and then preparing for the spanking. The switches should agree on a safe word to communicate any limits or boundaries prior to the spanking.
There are various techniques for spanking that can be used to achieve different sensations and to mix up the scene. For example, a spanking can be done in a steady rhythm or it can be mixed up by speeding up or slowing down the rhythm or alternating with some softer strokes.
The intensity of the spanking is determined by the force used and the number of blows given. For first-timers curious about spanking, you may want to try a more mild intensity spanking. You’ll be able to build up the intensity over time. For those more experienced with spanking, you may want to start off with a moderate intensity spanking and then gradually increase the intensity as desired.
Over-the-knee (OTK) spanking is typically done with the submissive lying across the spanker’s lap. Since the receiver is folded in half, it allows for a better angle and deep penetration of the strokes, which generally make it more intense.
When spanking the submissive, you can add role-playing, sensation play, and various implements such as paddles, crops, or floggers. These can create a wide range of sensations, from sensual and slow-building release to intense and heavy punishment.
It can also be beneficial to use short breaks in between spanking sessions to let the recipient catch his or her breath, lubricate if needed, and discuss any particular concerns.
For those looking to explore BDSM play a little more, there is also the option of impact play. Impact play includes different forms of spanking; whipping; caning; and striking with other implements like floggers and crops. Impact play generally tends to be intensity and can be overwhelming if done improperly. As always with BDSM play, communication, planning, and safety protocols are key.
No matter which technique you decide to use for BDSM spanking, it is important to remember to stay within your own physical and psychological limits, and to always practice safe and consensual BDSM. Know your own body and make sure to talk with your partner about your comfort levels prior to starting spanking. Experimentation and communication are key for creating a safe and fun spanking experience.